She sounded genuinely puzzled.
Ah, I thought…I’ve been there many times.
“It’s because he doesn’t have options,” I wanted to stop and tell her…but I didn’t.
That’s what life’s about: Having options. Whether it’s with friends, partners, jobs, whatever.
And everyone has these options… even when they don’t. It’s how you feel about your life that determines your options.
Do you feel empowered? Options manifest themselves.
Do you feel disadvantaged? Options become obscured and disappear.
Which way do you feel?